I don’t know why they’re so popular. They suck (pun intended). I’ve been given plenty and they ranged from outright terrifying (too much teeth!) to just kinda meh. I’d rather get a handy than a BJ.

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    The only thing unpopular about this opinion is that it’s in the form of an absolute. There’s so many factors for a good BJ. You haven’t had that combo yet.

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    The licks and kisses do a lot

    Ps. If youre a dick haver, ask your partner to try sucking as they would on a straw, that pressure does things to you.

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    I think it depends on how sensitive you are. I don’t find getting a bj pleasurable but I’ve had guys moaning “ohhh fuck oh fuckkkkk” when giving them.

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    I think the craziest part about this is how you enjoy handies… there is a lot of factors in a bj that would make everyone’s experience different but a handy is a handy and I’ve basically told people to stop because they are just that awful.

    As someone who has been with the same person for over a decade there are incredible life changing bjs and then ones where I am just trying to finish as quick as possible because you can tell their heart just isn’t in it. With that said I would never turn one down!

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    Best one I received she was did a lot of long licking with eye contact. It was sexy AF.

    Edit: Standing up hand in the pants handjob is hot too. It’s all foreplay. Build up the tension. Tease. Enjoy. That’s how you get good feeling blowjobs/eaten out.

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    Never did it for me either. It took my gf a long time to realize that she wasn’t doing anything wrong, I just don’t get a lot out of oral sex. I’d take a good hand job over mouth stuff any day when it comes to foreplay. Different strokes (heh) for different folks

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    I agree. It’s fine as foreplay, but I had a gf get legit mad at me because she couldn’t make me cum with just a bj.

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    I’ve had 2 good BJs in my life and even then I would have preferred penetration.

    Completely agree… for all the whining women do about how men don’t know how a clit works, not one woman apparently knows what to do with a penis.