To preface none of my fellow admins know about this post due to the language that I am using.
Although I do believe that they would be supportive of this as they care about our users just as much as I do.

I just had a run in with a user asking for help who then deleted their post and comments soon after.

If you see any users asking for help I would personally recommend a couple of things to look out for:

  • Check their profile;
    • how old’s the account?
    • what kinds of posts and comments are they making?
      • Are they the kind of user you’d be cool with being friends with?
    • Do they have history of deleting posts/comments? If so why? and how often?
  • Check the modlog;
    • have they done or said anything that warrented themselves getting banned or their posts/comments removed?

I’m making this post as I’m personally frustrated seeing posts and comments being removed as it actively harms instances, communities, and most importantly users.

I absolutely despise when I go a saved post or comment thread that I wanted to reread later only to find that I can’t cause the post/thread’s been deleted by a single user.

There’s so much useful or interesting and creative things that people care about and also want to share in terms of life experiences or just having a cool thing to collaborate and work on.

  • having this be ruined by individuals that want to ‘dine and dash’ basically ruins this.

Honestly Fuck you.
If you ‘help farm’ especially I will find you and I will ban you because you are actively harming users who spend their precious time, effort, and humanly love to do cool stuff here on the Fediverse.

    • OpenStars@piefed.socialEnglish
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      11 days ago

      iirc, deleted comments remain in the profile of the user that wrote them. So a lot of the value lies not in “having those answers”, but in placing those answers side-by-side along with the question. Which allows things like someone having the same question searching for it by keyword, and then finding the answers that they seek underneath that heading. For such to work then, we would need the actual text (& title) of the question.

      But then that wraps back around to who owns the question… and shouldn’t the owner be allowed to delete it, or edit it however they wish? Which makes me think: there is no system that will work in the face of malicious or at least inattentive bad actors. Perhaps social media is just a bad place to have such a question-and-answer forum, in favor of things such as wikipedia or more specialized forums (StackOverflow comes to mind).

      I liked Admiral Patrick’s take on it: ultimately we cannot control others, only ourselves, so he prevents brand-new accounts from being able to make posts in those communities in the first place, knowing that there is such a high likelihood that they are an attention vampire that will leave hurt feelings of frustration (and sometimes even betrayal) in the wake of their passing. But he only controls one instance, so at best it is only a test of what might work at a larger scale.

      I do note that afaik PieFed’s moderation abilities could automate that though (at least it should be able to? admittedly I have not tested this first-hand, only read about it long ago): e.g. it could prevent anyone with an account less than a certain age from making posts, as he does. It is one solution at least, hopefully we can dream up others as well! :-)

      • Blaze (he/him) @lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
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        11 days ago

        I liked Admiral Patrick’s take on it: ultimately we cannot control others, only ourselves, so he prevents brand-new accounts from being able to make posts in those communities in the first place, knowing that there is such a high likelihood that they are an attention vampire that will leave hurt feelings of frustration (and sometimes even betrayal) in the wake of their passing. But he only controls one instance, so at best it is only a test of what might work at a larger scale.

        That could work on support communities, but we don’t want to give potential new joiners too much of a waiting time before they can post or comment, this would increase the likelihood of them leaving.

    • Jerkface (any/all)@lemmy.caEnglish
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      11 days ago

      I think it’s the only fair compromise. I think we should respect a right to delete. But I don’t think that right to delete should be powerful enough to smother discussion. The person who started the communal thread should not have the power to silence everyone who participates.