like what did you dream for in the future or wanted as a job for when you became an adult. what did you end up getting stuck with?

i dident really have a dream as a kid, those were the years when i messed around and learned. now im in high school struggling with life and being paranoid for dumb reasons.

  • BastingChemina@slrpnk.net
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    I wanted to be an astrophysicist, then I realize that I suck at theoretical maths, so I became an engineer and worked on rocket engines manufacturing, but I realize that working on aerospace projects is way too much paperwork.

    Now I’m working with a small windows and doors manufacturing company to modernize their processes and I love it!

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    I didn’t really know what I wanted to be, but in hindsight it’s mostly because I didn’t really know any options. In a small town in the 90s it was finish school, then go work in a shop (girls) or a factory (boys). That was the assumption and basically the whole career “advice” setup at my school.

    So it kinda makes sense that nobody there seemed to have any ambitions.

    Thankfully, I eventually found out that you’re allowed to work with computers. Maybe someone would’ve mentioned that to me earlier if I’d been male but again, 90s. I taught myself web development, made a living off that for a while, eventually had enough and pivoted into being a small-time craft YouTuber!

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      Same! I was told that I could not be a pilot because I wear glasses, so I gave up. In hindsight, it was probably OK. I’ve known several pilots and the first few years can be really hard to have a family or even a relationship.

      Ironically, 3 of the pilots I know are afraid of heights.

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    Librarian. Author. Then game programmer.

    Now I’m a senior fullstack software developer. And it is honestly fun to chase bugs, no matter if they’re my bugs or someone elses. Also I didn’t need any university education for this. Went IT trade school, learned programming myself, got job as 1st line phone support, then was promoted to developer when I found and fixed bugs before it reached the devs.

    Still would have loved to go the librarian path too. Maybe in the next life.

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    Never had one. I’m 35 and still don’t know what I want to be when I grow up.

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    When I was a little kid people would ask me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I simply answered “Happy”.

    As I got older I learned what I enjoyed doing and I had some ideas.

    First I wanted to be teacher, then I wanted to be an engineer, then I wanted to be a teacher again, then I became homeless so I had only the dream of getting enough of a job to get a roof over my head.

    Then life got harder once I left highschool and basically all the support I was getting went away. I was homeless and I had a job that I was dumping all of my money into going to school to try and make it work. I really wanted to be a teacher.

    Then some stuff happened causing life to get even harder and I dropped out. What little support I had went away.

    I still had dreams of being a teacher as soon as I could get my life together.

    Then my life fell apart further.

    And further.

    Eventually I got my life together enough to try again. But then life got hard again and I had to make a call. Risk homelessness again or drop out again.

    I drive a forklift now… I have for nearly a decade and I’ll probably drive it for a long long time more.

    Sometimes I think about becoming a teacher, but finances being what they are nowadays I could never afford the schooling and rent. And with what teacher’s salaries are if I took loans I’d never be able to pay them back.

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      I’m glad I wasn’t the only one that wanted to work on a garbage truck, for the exact same reason!

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    Archaeologist. Or more accurately, paleontologist, but I was a little idiot like most children. Also like many children, I fucking loved dinosaurs.

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    When I was in school I remember one day we had a lesson about jobs, we each had a worksheet with some jobs listed and we had to pick out one we liked. There was one option that stood out to me right away, I can’t remember the exact title they had but it was the one computer-related job on the sheet. I distinctly remember the teacher telling me that job wouldn’t be needed in the future. Why even have it as an option if it’s the one “wrong” choice?

    Anyway, I’m in software now. I’m incredibly lucky that I’ve always known what I wanted and managed to build a well-paid career in a field I like. Very few people get to say that.