I don’t think you’re an arsehole. These are decisions that couples have to make through out their relationship. It doesn’t matter whose idea it was, if that’s what was decided then you need to stick to it.
Yeah I agree with CEO here. Don’t forget that both partners are equally likely to get carried away in the moment, seek more intimacy and closeness and make the same dumb mistakes. If there’s no history of manipulation then I would err on the side of thinking you both just made the same in-the-moment call. Breathe. Its ok. There’s a lot of big emotions and tiredness over there.
I don’t think you’re an arsehole. These are decisions that couples have to make through out their relationship. It doesn’t matter whose idea it was, if that’s what was decided then you need to stick to it.
Yeah I agree with CEO here. Don’t forget that both partners are equally likely to get carried away in the moment, seek more intimacy and closeness and make the same dumb mistakes. If there’s no history of manipulation then I would err on the side of thinking you both just made the same in-the-moment call. Breathe. Its ok. There’s a lot of big emotions and tiredness over there.
That’s why it’s important to make decisions outside of the bedroom and stick to them.