I’m curious… and slightly horny, I admit it.

Marking this NSFW in case anyone wants to get into more detail about being top / bottom / vers or sub / dom.

I’m pretty gay / male oriented myself. I do like to post good straight yiff I find, but males turn me on much more. I’d also say I’m a switch, depending on the situation, very interested in stuff like petplay, Dom/sub situations.

Anyways 0////0 HBU? Just asking for scientific statistical purposes, of course.

(I might regret posting this hehe. Admin is being horny on main… )

  • Tammy@yiffit.net
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    Transfemme pan myself although I am an extremely submissive bottom and love penetration a bit too much so sexually not every body type works equally well for me (luckily strap-ons exist~)

    I’m just a toy basically and I like it that way :3 Rough is fun, I quite like being held down and all as long as it stays very clearly consensual. No cnc for me please!

    I’m still trying to find the perfect community for me so suggestions welcome :3

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    I don’t know!

    Whatever I am, I think I have a strong leaning towards women, and I think I could only see myself romantically interested with a woman long term.

    However, with men, it’s… Strange, and I’m wondering how common this is in the community. Basically, I don’t find human men intrinsically attractive, but I do like furry men. Like maybe something in my brain chemistry doesn’t see them as male? I’m not sure. I even ERP through text with a furry guy friend!

    BDSM wise… I do love good bondage, particularly novel and interesting scenarios that get stuck into my head~ I don’t actually mind IRL men in bondage most of the time. In theory I’m a switch, but I think I’ve been leaning more towards sub nowadays, probably due to life stuff.

    Also, !hornychat when. :P

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      Okay, now I have that idea in my head… Would anyone be interested in a “hornychat” community? Basically, an nsfw community where respectful flirty comments and explicit discussions about interests and kinks live. Hopefully with checks in place to curb the drama caused by such things.

      If this comment gets 5 updoots, I may flesh out the idea beyond inane rambling on a random comment thread and post it in the meta community.

      Also, hello people browsing comments by new.

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          If I do end up making the community, I may make a “don’t pm people unless requested” rule, just because it changes the dynamic from lighthearted public discussion to something personal.

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    I’m all the way gay Blobfox Bongo Hyper. The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I’m very grateful for that.

    According to furscience, furries are >80% queer. Who knows why - we’re just a lucky bunch with a handful of comorbidities I guess.

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      That’s a cool word, “comorbidity”. ^^

      It’s really great that you found some peace about yourself. Hopefully more happy times now

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      The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I’m very grateful for that.

      Same here, was a core part on accepting myself. Too bad I do not have the strength to make others accept that too.

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    The great thing about this federation thing is that this thread popped up on Kbin’s all feed.

    I’m going to answer anyway:

    Straight CIS white male, also not a furry.

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      Welcome!

      So… how do you find being straight?

      No really, this experience is alien to me hah

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        I don’t really think about it, but I hear from people that cocks look weird, so I suppose you should imagine the difference is seeing something weird you like and have the impulse to touch, vs seeing something weird that you don’t really care about and don’t have the impulse to touch.

        In terms of social interactions there is a position of privilege I’m in. I have experienced gay coworkers and acquaintances being mistreated. It’s annoying getting along well with someone and they bust out some hot take that shows they are hateful. So I’m not subject to that treatment, and that’s what I mean by privilege. I’ve put stuff in my ass and posted a video on fetlife, so if the conversation topic is bdsm and such I do censor myself depending on the audience.

        My wife is great. We just moved into this housing coop and I’ve been working on little improvements. She’s short so I ordered some low cabinets and countertop so she doesn’t struggle to cook stuff, and seeing how happy it made her is very satisfying. She’s super supportive of my hobbies, has a great sense of humor, and is very loving. I got her into Startrek and she really likes it all.

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    Smashed my keyboard and lost my post , oops

    If you’re gonna make a community named yiffit and post furry porn you’re gonna get embarassed over one horny post?? You didn’t just horny post, you made a whole horny forum! That’s like saying you’re not interested in lewd and then you start a gentlefox’s club

    I’m bi or pan or whatever, idk, I just accept everyone but I am mostly attracted to people I like. However, for longer term relationships I prefer guys, other women I get the brain bug and go absolutely insane if the relationship is too serious.

    I was really into rough stuff though I sometimes have trouble being a sub because I have way too much self-determination and can get annoyed when people order me around, and my suspension of disbelief always sucks. I can also like really intimate romantic stuff but I suppose everyone does. I mainly really liked to roleplay and I am very experimental since I like to fulfill my partner’s interests, and I know how to set boundaries so I don’t get forced into something I really know or find out I’m not into or makes me uncomfortable. Doesn’t happen a whole lot though, and most of my interests have been gained over the years by partners I had that introduced me to this or that. Text roleplay and writing I especially have always liked, and as you can see, I type too much but I just ~~really love to write. I already had to cut this post down a lot because I realized I was way ~~ too descriptive in some things. Lots of useless words and phrases I edit down after the fact! I showed what I would normally remove in this paragraph. But damn if I can’t write a good sex scene without being too repetitive

    Nowadays I feel really vanilla though.

    The problem is that since I like guys everyone (<-- hyperbole) in the furry community is gay so I literally can’t find anyone to hit on!! I have a 90% chance of getting shut down right away!! I blame all of you for this

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    Gay cis man.

    I’m versatile, but lean more towards bottom I’d say. In some cases I’m also quite dominant. I like taking charge, but I have a hard time topping people I’m not emotionally invested in.

    Sometimes I do enjoy feeling submissive and vulnerable too though.

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    Cis-man, my sexual orientation is if we are doing the deed I’ll find some way to enjoy your bits, guess that makes me pansexual.

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    Male/Gay with a absolutely preference on masculinity. What that means is mainly behavioural, not in Relation to body types but I do not enjoy very thin guys.

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    Bicurious Cis Male here. I find it so interesting that in the Fandom there isn’t just “one” type of person, if that makes sense, and that the spectrum is all over the place. I’m just a typical, boring top I guess. I definitely enjoy Dom/Sub situations, with an affinity for BDSM.

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    I’m fairly straight. At least, attracted to femme. But it’s a little confusing. I’m not really attracted to people specifically, but I wish I looked like them. In another life I would be a transbian. If I knew for a fact I would pass I might consider transitioning. I know that isn’t the most important thing to everyone, but it’s important to me. I also question whether I’m actually trans or if it’s just a fetish

    This confused the shit out of me growing up. I legitimately thought I was gay even though I’m not really attracted to men. Furry confused that even more because I am attracted to a lot of male furries.

    I’m also fairly submissive. I can kind of Dom, but it kind of doesn’t feel right being Dom as a guy.

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    Subby gay cis-male. I do have occasional straight fantasies, but it’s really not practical to consider myself anything but gay. I’m also very into dom/sub situations, as you put it.

    Like many of you, I like paws.

    also vore

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    Gay male, and I guess I’m a switch (although bottom 80% of the time).

    BDSM is huge for me. Being in bondage makes me instantly horny x3

    Oh and paws of course.

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    hmmm, dunno? If I had to say… Asexual, maybe a fem prefrence. I don’t think I’ve ever looked at someone and felt sexual attraction. I don’t really get turned on by nudity in any form.
    I find BDSM situations attractive. My first “porn” searches were for horses pulling wagons. I found BDSM stuff after that and didn’t find furry stuff for another 5 years or so. As far as gender cis Male… It is what it is. I sometimes have fantasies in both gender roles and generally have no issue inserting myself as the submissive in a story in either role.