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  • Dave@lemmy.nzOPM
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    1 year ago

    Nah off the top of my head I think it might have been like they do it when they are expecting a reply, so other generations make them think they are supposed to reply or something.

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      1 year ago

      Having been on the receiving end of it from two people professionally, wracking my brains over what their problem was, until I learned how they were actually meaning it:

      The trailing ellipses feels like it’s ‘politely’ avoiding saying the “obvious” conclusion out loud. And if someones avoiding saying it, it’s probably negative. That’s why it’s seen as passive-aggressive.

      To my generation it sounds like, I dunno, saying “Where there’s smoke…”.

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        1 year ago

        Are you in the younger than normal or older than normal generation?

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            1 year ago

            Ok good to know! I tend to avoid … in work emails because I know it can be taken in different ways, I should probably avoid it in other online posts too…