It might not strike you as a, “toy” but the Liberator (or whatever knockoff works for ya) is an extremely useful object. Especially if you’re into bondage, but just overall.

The small wedge is the most useful, since it lifts the hips up a bit, making things more uh…accessible, without strain.

For toys, we would recommend getting a womanizer (or other brand equivalent). Almost every woman we talk sex with is in agreement that it’s a very unique, incredible feeling, and we use it very often in our sex sessions as a couple.

As other have said, an assortment of buttplugs is a good thing, being able to go up in size as the play ramps up, and it works for anyone any gender.

We also recommend something like the “HER ultimate pleasure”, meaning a toy with a suction cup for the vulva, and a moving tongue-like part. There are similar ones for other brands, we can vouch for the effectiveness of this particular one.

And finally, if you’re into it, some restraints are always good, you can start very simple with 2 cuff pairs, and add some bed restraints, or even spreader bars.

We hope this helps and you have a wonderful time together!

A violet wand is good fun for ElectroBoom-type kinksters

Duomo? Can’t seem to find anything about that online.

Increasingly kinky lingerie and attire is fun, whether that’s just cupless and crotchless or further into bdsm outfits. A leather belt with a handle on it is kinky and great for getting some leverage from behind, which I hadn’t thought of it til I saw one on there.

Buttplugs are good for you both, and a vibrating plug can add a whole new dimension of sensation

Oh, and I’m not sure what the name of it is, but my fiancée and I quite enjoyed a thin prostate massager that we can easily DVP her with