oNevia
Hi! I’m oNevia. I love gaming, design and music. Hit me up if you wanna chat.
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oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Looking for Sperm Preservation AdviceEnglish2·9 months agoWe went through Legacy. They partnered with a service called Splitit and they technically handle the payments but all of it was taken care of through the Legacy platform ❤️
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Looking for Sperm Preservation AdviceEnglish12·9 months agoHi! Depends on where you live, but I live in the US and this is what I ended up doing.
My Endo recommended a service called Legacy for storage. She told me most of her patients have gone with them and although none to date have withdrawn their samples yet, everyone has had positive experiences with the deposit.
They’re an at home service, meaning they send you a kit in the mail. The kit included a cup for the sample, some mixing (think powdered cheese for microwavable Mac n cheese) to stabilize the sample and very strict instructions to make sure to have the sample dropped off or picked up by a mail carrier same day of producing the sample.
I did two deposits about a week apart from each other. They analyzed both samples for viability, STDs and even how a small portion of the sample handled being frozen and then thawed.
I even had the ability to use my true name in their system and the only place I needed to use my legal name was on the sample cup itself.
They’re going to store my sperm for 5 years. And the entire process cost my wife and I $1200 for collection, analysis and storage. We pay monthly payments of $100 with no interest.
Honestly very smooth process and I have no complaints.
Let me know if you have follow up questions :)
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto r/unixsocks on fediverse @lemmy.blahaj.zone•unixsocks needs new modsEnglish2·11 months agoThank you 🥺
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto r/unixsocks on fediverse @lemmy.blahaj.zone•unixsocks needs new modsEnglish3·11 months agoInterested ☺️
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneMto Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Pffft. Don't tempt me with a good time!English1·11 months agoSounds cheaper than current surgical options 😁
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPMto Trans@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Who has been your biggest support during your transition?English1·1 year agoPersonally, my biggest support has been my wife who has been with me every step of the way. Even the steps that terrified us both.
But also, I have found my family that I have been searching for my entire life. I found them here and on the blahaj matrix chat rooms.
I hope they all know just how special they are to me. They’ve given me a space to be myself and I feel like I finally fit in somewhere.
When I say they’re my family, I truly honestly mean that.
There is one special person that I’ve met here that I know for a fact will always be a part of my life. I wouldn’t trade them for the world. ❤️
Troy and Abed in the moooorrrnnning!
Yep, you’re a really awesome person! Love those names. And I would bet money Keris would be so happy to have a little kitty door so they can visit her. She adores cats.
For me, chemical x was testosterone.
It gave me dysphoria instead of super powers 😔
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOPto Blåhaj@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Gloria chilling on the couch ❤️English5·1 year agoAmazon :P I suggest the biggest size WITHOUT a blanket. Because without the blanket inside the shark, she gets a little flat. So I chose one without and she’s the perfect spooning size ❤️
Dish daddy … has seen some things
Probably my favorite episode of all time! I remember watching it the first time as a tween and thinking it was the most original piece of art I had ever seen
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto AI Generated Images@sh.itjust.works•Paranoid by Black SabbathEnglish1·1 year agoCan’t argue with that :P lol
It’s scratching at my brain but I can’t quite figure it out.
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto AI Generated Images@sh.itjust.works•Paranoid by Black SabbathEnglish1·1 year agoHmm. Could we get the artist’s name?
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto ErgoMechKeyboards@lemmy.world•I use quotes much more than colon and semicolon, so I swapped the keysEnglish3·1 year agoIsn’t that “convenient” for you. 😜
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•MtF HRT Week 2 - My ExperienceEnglish3·1 year agoThat is… Exactly what that was. Wow, thank you for putting words to the feelings I was having. Still working on identifying and understanding my emotions, haha.
Thank you for your insight! It really helped me ❤️
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoLGBTQ+@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Republicans Issue New Government Shutdown Threat Over Trans People (USA)English3·1 year agoI can’t say where Erin is pulling the pride flags bit from. Ive found this about Florida wanting to ban pride flags from government buildings and schools.
https://www.axios.com/2024/01/17/florida-pride-flags-bill-lgbtq
🤷🏻♀️
Thank you! That was driving me nuts.
I now need this more than words can describe.
oNevia@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•MtF HRT Week 2 - My ExperienceEnglish9·1 year agoCongrats hun! I’m actually right there with you. Started my journey on 2/9 so seeing your experience helps put mine in perspective.
The mental changes are spot on for me! Although the first week I had a couple episodes of vulnerable insecurity. This week I’m a lot more calm and able to enjoy life better. Almost like my baseline happiness has been increased.
Hope to continue to see your posts :)
-Your almost biHRTday twin Olivia
Here’s a listing on Etsy. One of the options is a trans cross ❤️
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1164479677/lgbtq-cross-many-pride-flags-available
Let me see if I can dig up any more.
Live your truth. Always know who you are. Carve your own path forward if you have to and be proud in being an individual worthy of love and respect ❤️