Hi! I’m oNevia. I love gaming, design and music. Hit me up if you wanna chat.

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Cake day: October 29th, 2023

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  • Hi! Depends on where you live, but I live in the US and this is what I ended up doing.

    My Endo recommended a service called Legacy for storage. She told me most of her patients have gone with them and although none to date have withdrawn their samples yet, everyone has had positive experiences with the deposit.

    They’re an at home service, meaning they send you a kit in the mail. The kit included a cup for the sample, some mixing (think powdered cheese for microwavable Mac n cheese) to stabilize the sample and very strict instructions to make sure to have the sample dropped off or picked up by a mail carrier same day of producing the sample.

    I did two deposits about a week apart from each other. They analyzed both samples for viability, STDs and even how a small portion of the sample handled being frozen and then thawed.

    I even had the ability to use my true name in their system and the only place I needed to use my legal name was on the sample cup itself.

    They’re going to store my sperm for 5 years. And the entire process cost my wife and I $1200 for collection, analysis and storage. We pay monthly payments of $100 with no interest.

    Honestly very smooth process and I have no complaints.

    Let me know if you have follow up questions :)






  • Personally, my biggest support has been my wife who has been with me every step of the way. Even the steps that terrified us both.

    But also, I have found my family that I have been searching for my entire life. I found them here and on the blahaj matrix chat rooms.

    I hope they all know just how special they are to me. They’ve given me a space to be myself and I feel like I finally fit in somewhere.

    When I say they’re my family, I truly honestly mean that.

    There is one special person that I’ve met here that I know for a fact will always be a part of my life. I wouldn’t trade them for the world. ❤️


















  • Congrats hun! I’m actually right there with you. Started my journey on 2/9 so seeing your experience helps put mine in perspective.

    The mental changes are spot on for me! Although the first week I had a couple episodes of vulnerable insecurity. This week I’m a lot more calm and able to enjoy life better. Almost like my baseline happiness has been increased.

    Hope to continue to see your posts :)

    -Your almost biHRTday twin Olivia