40ish white dude (he/him) from the Netherlands

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Cake day: January 29th, 2024

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  • I would give him time, if I were you. After a month of dating, that’s still pretty early in a relationship. Sleeping on someone else’s house can be scary, so early on.

    After all, you wouldn’t want to be forced into something you’re not ready for either.

    I totally get your side too, it may seem weird but it’s his boundary to set. He has said no, and no still means no.

    The best thing you can do is to keep the invitation open and talk about it with him. Find out what he thinks or fears is going to happen.

    Maybe he had a bedtime ritual that he’s not yet willing to share yet.



  • Ok this is not going to mean much to you guys, but around 2:08:00 in this episode, Ally, when talking about trying to find a mole in the crew, seems to say “Wie is de mol”. (Which sounds like “We is the mole”)

    It doesn’t sound like anything you would say in English, but it’s such a random thing to say, so I could very much be mistaken.

    But for what’s it worth, it’s the Dutch name of the tv program The Mole. Where the contestants try to sus out a mole in their midst that sabotaging their attempts to finish tasks to earn money.

    It’s just so random and it’s not subtitled.