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Cake day: December 9th, 2025

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  • I mean your ex wife did a bunch of shit to get hot to land a guy and you did a bunch of shit to get a good job so you could land a hot wife. Hot girls who get divorced don’t have access to money the same way that you do and since kids are involved the court seeks equity.

    It’s not the “weakness” of women it’s just that home making isn’t financially rewarded. If she had pursued a career and not having children then she could have the same access to money that you have because you don’t have to physically carry the child. And being a homemaker isn’t a choice you made for yourself, and let’s be honest isn’t really possible except for very few men. I’m sure it sucks from your point of view. But she spent her beauty and youth capital on you and won’t be able to find a guy as good as you now that she’s older and has kids.

    Also you’re probably taking care of yourself so you can wholly start over with a hot young wife and you will continue to make more money in your career. But your ex wife is just gonna keep on doing the best she can. It hurts now but it will hurt less as time goes on so try not to begrudge her too much.