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Hildegarde
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Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•im also super scared of weed and plushies :3English5·2 days agoyou know…
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Femcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zone•im also super scared of weed and plushies :3English7·2 days agoIf you’re scared of having a girlfriend you must be terrified of having a wife.
Trans people being for pansexuals is a common trope in queer pandering media. They specifically pair trans people with pansexuals, so they can be inclusive, but in the specific way that doesn’t ask their mostly cis and straight audience to question their own sexuality, because that might make them uncomfortable.
Its not a reflection of reality. Hot women are hot, hot men are hot, regardless of how they got there.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Liberty Hub@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Blue MAGA focused on the important issues, as usual1·3 days agoBiden put tarriffs on chinese EVs which is why you can’t buy a BYD in the us. This is not an example of appeasement, this is what they do regardless.
Gender dysphoria is not diagnosed by the symptoms. The determining factors are the desire for change, and the presence of some sort of distress or discomfort. The specifics of the discomfort that you experience are not part of it. If you want to change your gender, and have some amount of discomfort as a result, you have gender dysphoria. From reading your post, it sure sounds like it.
If you’re interested, I have included the diagnostic criteria for gender dysphoria and transsexualism from the American Psychiatric Association’s DSM-5, and the World Health Organization’s ICD-10 respectively. If you go to a doctor they will almost assuredly be using one of these documents to determine if you can be diagnosed for it. They both require some amount distress or discomfort but give no details on what that distress or discomfort feels like or how it manifests.
DSM-5's Diagnostic criteria
Gender Dysphoria in Adolescents and Adults 302.85 (F64.1)
A. A marked incongruence between one’s experienced/expressed gender and assigned gender, of at least 6 months’ duration, as manifested by at least two of the following:
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A marked incongruence between one’s experienced/expressed gender and primary and/or secondary sex characteristics (or in young adolescents, the anticipated secondary sex characteristics).
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A strong desire to be rid of one’s primary and/or secondary sex characteristics because of a marked incongruence with one’s experienced/expressed gender (or in young adolescents, a desire to prevent the development of the anticipated secondary sex characteristics).
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A strong desire for the primary and/or secondary sex characteristics of the other gender.
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A strong desire to be of the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender).
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A strong desire to be treated as the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender).
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A strong conviction that one has the typical feelings and reactions of the other gender (or some alternative gender different from one’s assigned gender)
B. The condition is associated with clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
ICD-10's Diagnostic Criteria for Transsexualism
F64.0
Transsexualism
A desire to live and be accepted as a member of the opposite sex, usually accompanied by a sense of discomfort with, or inappropriateness of, one’s anatomic sex and a wish to have hormonal treatment and surgery to make one’s body as congruent as possible with the preferred sex.
Diagnostic guidelines
For this diagnosis to be made, the transsexual identity should have been present persistently for at least 2 years, and must not be a symptom of another mental disorder, such as schizophrenia, or associated with any intersex, genetic, or sex chromosome abnormality.
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Thanks I was reading this post on my smart fridge and I’m not strong enough to tilt it back.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What does Dysphoria feel like (for you)?English3·4 days agoSame. In many ways ignorance is bliss, but it is no substitute.
I didn’t care about my health either, but now I do, because of the HRT. HRT is great! Do whatever you need to do to get it.
I was prescribed both estrodiol and a testosterone blocker. That combination has made me stop getting horny, like entirely. I wouldn’t say that’s the best part, but as an asexual it’s a delightful bonus.
That doesn’t work. I found a study about cow’s milk having measurable levels of estrogen, and that’s even mammalian estrogen that works unlike plant estrogen that just has a similar name.
But HRT is precise and controlled. Its far better to do it properly. Trying to change your hormones through diet is far more likely to cause health problems from a poor and unvaried diet than it is to actually change your body.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Games@lemmy.world•Nintendo confirms $90 price for full Breath of the Wild experience on Switch 2English179·4 days ago$90 to replay a 8 year old wiiu game. Why would anyone?
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•What does Dysphoria feel like (for you)?English9·5 days agoMy experience with dysphoria has always been subtle and unspecific. It took a very long time for me to recognize it.
In adulthood, it was little more than a slight inclination towards depression. Whenever I would notice it, it was far easier to attribute it to immediate circumstances.
When I felt it in winter, surely its just seasonal depression. When I felt it in summer, its just because I hate summer. During covid I was miserable because I couldn’t go anywhere, then afterwards I was miserable because I had to go places. This was all dysphoria, but nothing about it gave any indication it was about gender.
Also I had the emotional range of a thimble. (what is this metaphor?) I could feel empty, or angry, and little else.
I never liked how I looked in pictures avoided taking them, or appearing in them when possible. I guess I’m just ugly, that’s the most reasonable explanation.
It took me a very long time to realize I was trans, and even longer to be ready to accept it. It wasn’t until I started HRT and most of what I have described went away that I realized it was dysphoria.
I dislike the word dysphoria, because its such a strong word. For a long time I thought that my subtle and nonspecific feelings couldn’t possibly be enough to be dysphoria.
To anyone out there reading this because you’re uncertain if you’re feeling dysphoria: When a disorder is named after its symptoms it’s usually named at a very early stage of research, when researchers are only able to find the most obvious examples. This is why so many disorders have incredibly scary sounding names. Dysphoria can be that bad for some, but it can also be so subtle you don’t even realize you’re suffering.
I love femboys I wish femgirls were real.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transgender@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Families of transgender youth no longer view Colorado as a haven for gender-affirming care3·7 days agoYou can call your AG regularly and be an annoying and persistant problem for their staff until they do something.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Electric Vehicles@slrpnk.net•BYD’s low-cost Seagull EV now starts at under $8,000 in ChinaEnglish181·9 days agoUS car companies list their prices with the subsidies included too.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto politics @lemmy.world•Walz Slams Harris’ ‘Told You So’ After Election Loss16·10 days agoso… its a news article in 2025?
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto Transfem@lemmy.blahaj.zone•Waist:Hip and jean shoppingEnglish5·10 days agoWaist measurements for women are made quite high, above the navel. Hip measurements are made around the middle of the butt. The jeans will only be the width of the waist measurement if they are high rise jeans. Mid rise jeans don’t go high enough to reach the natural waist, so the waist measurement is less of an issue.
Keep in mind the measurements are a circumference. 8 inches seems like a lot, but it equates to around 1-2 inches of linear distance, which is much less than it seems.
Women’s jeans tend to be made with much stretchier fabrics than men’s jeans. That’s why women’s jeans look better and are more form fitting. If the measurements are a little off in some place, the stretch of the fabric will help.
I just measured my jeans looping the tape measure through the belt loops and it went from 39" when relaxed to 45" when pulled tight. There’s a lot of leeway.
I would recommend getting mid rise jeans and prioritizing the hip measurement over the waist measurement. If you pick the size that is close it will probably be close enough.
Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zoneto News@lemmy.world•Trump says he doesn't want stocks to go down, 'but sometimes you have to take medicine'6·11 days agoTrump is against medicine.
I read the article and the headline is false, and contradicts the story.
The snitch line is real. If you have heard about it in other news sources, this is it. But its for reporting doctors who give the care, not for reporting the patients who receive it.
The article itself seems fine, but the headline is lies. The feds haven’t open a second snitch line to report trans people receiving care, at least not according to this article.
This is all very bad but its not quite as bad as the headline is written to make you believe.