trolls aren’t going to not troll just because there are well defined rules, in fact in can have the opposite effect, trolls using the rules as a weapon in their trolling.

in some of your comments you talk about checks and balances in terms of governance. well lemmy is not a democracy plain and simple, server owners have full control, and this is a feature not a bug. having full control means that you can abuse your power sure, but echo chambers aren’t fun without people to troll, and the open nature of the fediverse means people will go wherever they like best. and for what it’s worth the vibe here is better than anywhere else on lemmy in my experience.

and as for your last point, this space is not intended for transphobes to better themselves, it is meant as a place for trans people to feel safe. if a troll comes here and betters themselves somehow, great, but that’s not the goal of this place. we’re here because we’re sick of having cis het normative being the standard, and we wanna be ourselves, not conform to the straights and what they want us to be.

I’m very creepy thank you very much <3

you mean there are cute lesbians and all i need to do is climb a mountain?

jokes on you i never sleep anyways :3

look at me I’m a target!

mostly because i cant afford ac

sometimes I go feral, hopefully it’s contained to the bed and not somewhere like the kitchen or garage.

I can cook, clean, and I’m already partially house trained meow

the good news is you can be!

but how could I not love such a cute girl?

there is a likely correlation between people likely to be homophobes and people likely to have ruined society.

gosh this unlocked a deep memory <3

honestly you should never date somebody who prefers the company of others over you, not to say that they cant enjoy the company of others, rather that they should not prioritize those other relationships over the one they choose to be their partner.

im terribly sorry that you dont have this experience, and i often felt this way when i was dating men too. dating women hasnt been exactly the opposite or anything, and maybe its just because im more picky about my partners now, but dating women has shown me that i really do deserve somebody who will care about me and prioritize my needs, and tell me that they love me and care about me and actually mean it when they say it.

how did you know?

i pretty much always sleep in two portions of the day, so i have a couple hours in between to do whatever i want (including panic)

i made a mistake on my comment, i meant without capatalism not under it.

without capitalism we would not have rent or prices of goods and services because people would just get what they need

also, yay, cool hair <3

servo is just an engine, if you want something more like a browser then look into verso

I was referring to a (hypothetical) trans person