🐝bownage [they/he]

✨ 👋 Dutch queer person (they/he) | I like taking to people online

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Cake day: June 8th, 2023

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  • Made too many plans, now I’m tired but luckily the weekend is nearly there so I can rest do even more

    I spontaneously booked a hairdresser appointment last weekend and really enjoyed getting my hair cut. The differences are quite small but it made me feel euphoric :)

    No one at work has noticed ofc but fuck them I’m vibin 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️


  • Thanks for saying this, it does help ❤️

    I just find it hard to actually take action and not just feel cynical/disillusioned/unable to enact change, which is what I’m doing most of the time.

    Of course it helps to start small but I don’t really seem to get any relief from what I do control. Sure it’s nice knowing my friends would eat the billionaires with me but that won’t actually change anything in the world cause we’re all privileged enough to not feel threatened enough (privilege, baby) by the current state of the world to actually get off our asses.

    Which in turn makes me feel like I’m just a blob floating on the waves of a storm of someone else’s design and it’s not worth the effort to invest in myself and try to make myself grow as a person.









  • Had a fun weekend.

    Yesterday I ordered a bunch of nail products to step up my nail game. I’ve been just doing flat polish with nothing else on it and it was getting boring. Now we’re leveling those babies up with base coats, top coats, glitter and more colours 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

    Also feeling less gender dysphoria now that the sun’s out and I can wear more fem things again without freezing to death 💅


  • Do you have any fav gunlance builds? I’ve started trying it out for wilds and it’s very fun and stable (albeit a little boring at times when your friend is playing something flashy like dual blades or longsword), but I’m not really sure if I’m getting the most out of it.

    Ive also picked up insect glaive finally after putting it off for all of worlds and rise, it’s so fun!! Jumping goes brrrr