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Cake day: May 24th, 2025

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  • First of all i habe to say that im depresed my self so you should take my words with a grain oft Salt.

    With Depression comes a fluctuation of how you feel. Its usualy waves of a sense of feeling your emotions and numbnes with only intense hate for yourself. During those downs everything gets lost and it sounds like he is putting himself down for not feeling anything for you in that time. He might feel his love for you intensly for a month and looses his sense for it the next day.

    Im also in a relationship and i learned that for me love is mostly in the work you put in the relationship. It was hard for me to overcome my lacking drive and put in the work to show my love in little ways. We had multiple long talks about what we need and i had to work in my self to give my Partner what they need. Its not done but im already happy with where we are. I think if he is not ready to put in the work then you are negativly affected by bis Depression and thats not something you have to endure to wait for him to get better.

    Im also a sozial worker and can say that if he is not adressing his gaming adiction he will have a hard time to work in his Depression.

    Tell him how you feel about the Situation and what you need from him and if he doesnt show that he is undestanding you need to look out for your own wellbeing. Find out where your red lines are and do what you need to protect them. If he doesnt respect that its a red flag.







  • Do not use Smartphones. For the scarf use an unmarked tubescarf, its easely hidden in any collar. Cary bandages and lightsalt solution, like you use for contacts, to treat teargas and light wounds. If they get you you want nothing outside oft your memory that has any link to others. Depending in the effect of carrying your passport with you in your country decide wether to take it along.









  • Es ist eine Sache Aufmerksamkeit auf die Blockade von Hilfsgütern aufmerksam zu machen und eine andere dabei Menschen eine Plattform zu geben die die einen Teil der Aggressoren verharmlosen. Was die israelische Regierung mit ihrem Militär abzieht ist absolut grauen voll und darf so nicht klein geredet werden. Die Hamas im Gegenzug als Freiheitskämpfer zu verherrlichen oder das auch nur zu akzeptieren zeigt einfach nur, dass es nicht um die Opfer geht.

    Es sind vor allem Männliche Herrscher die hier auf einander treffen und alles zwischen sich zermahlen.

    Also, es ist gut Aufmerksamkeit auf die Menschenrechtsverletzungen zu ziehen. Gleichzeitig teilweise Täter zu glorifizieren schwächt den Protest.



  • Its already a big win that you were able to get yourself out of this Situation. Focus on the good things you did to protect yourself. This is hard and its going to be hard again and again. Dont put yourself down for your thoughts. Keep an eye out for the small steps towards your goals.

    There are lots nice people here. Try out different tips and find people who understand you. Sharing and community can be a really strong “skill”.