Be kind to people, cruel to systems. Some communists have been so busy reading theory they forget to read the room.
I’m sorry to hear about how you’re struggling. Don’t let some individual obnoxious people compromise your values. As long as you’re an ally to the working class, you’re plenty fine.
I’ve had far less obnoxious people in deadlock compared to Dota. There was some smart decisions to have fewer defined “roles” and less emphasis on having one or a few players pop off with all the resources.
The game itself is so solid, has good balance, the movement and abilities are fun… It’s good. Some people are going to get annoying and sweaty in a comparative snowbally team game. I like to thank them for making my games a win-win. Either I get to win the game, or my obnoxious teammate gets to lose.
I too hate the average g*mer but I’m not going to let them steal my enjoyment.