“What?” Says the gf after I audibly grunt to this comedic masterpiece

We’re going to see more and more of this. The tools are getting a bit better but without expert supervision and limiting the use cases for LLM generation, it’s going to be a shit show.

Thanks for the link!

First of all, this must be really difficult and I wish you strength to come through this with hope and dignity.

I lasted 12 years with my ex through good and bad times. She had her own neurodivergences and I was not adequately handling mine. I caused a lot of shit by being absent, dissociated, unhelpful etc.

Blaming myself for the failure of our relationship is not helpful. It went the way it went because of who we were at the time. I use it as motivation and a chance to learn about myself and how to be better.

Being successful with ADHD requires a kindness and gentleness to one’s self. I would ask myself “Would you say these things to a stranger? Would you say these things to a friend? Then why would you say them to me?”

One of the turning points for me was to stop putting myself last and to instead put myself first. If I am strong then I can be more dependable for others. I give myself the accommodations that I need. I stopped treating myself badly. I learned how to love myself. I stand my ground when others expect too much of me. These things were integral in becoming the person that my new partner now loves and respects me for.

When two people don’t work out it’s no one’s fault. Each is betting on a future with someone that is an accessible attractive option and often that bet doesn’t yield the results they wanted but that doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth the time that was had. We can’t tell the future. No one is perfect. Perfection doesn’t even exist. We’re all just muddling through the day to day. Shakespeare asked is it better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all - and there is a clear answer - its better to have loved and lost, because it wouldn’t be painful if there was no substance to it.

I’d hazard a guess that you guys are probably done and that the best thing for you is distance right now. After some distance and time you’ll know if there is any future. You probably already know that though.

Max Planck says no…

That’s an amnita, maybe a blusher or panther cap.

Get to da choppa!

Sorry you have to deal with this! Old age is coming for us all if we can survive that long… Hopefully they live within range of delivery services?

Just because that’s your viewpoint doesn’t mean that everyone will automatically think that way. There would probably be some that are averse to it and some that don’t care.

There are loads of examples where they edit the image before rematerializing. Like removing an illness or fixing age or splitting Tuvix.

I hate people who can’t handle an opposing view. Group think and echo chambers are toxic no matter what the topic is.

Thank you chicken lady. That makes much more sense.

ADHD Memes

This community is hosted on db0 which is AI friendly. You can post there from any lemmy account. Sorry you had such a bad experience here. Some people are just mean and angry.

A meme you can hear

It’s so dystopian in the states. When I needed Ritalin I spoke to my GP, they referred me to a psych. Did three sessions and then the psych called my doc and asked him to write a script.

Excellent perspective 👏

I was high on cannabis 24/7 for 20 years. He is going through withdrawal and it’s going to be tough for the first month. After that he will start sleeping better but still have really vivid dreams. Expect a short temper and irritability. Months 2,3 and 4 won’t be that bad. If he has anxiety issues like PTSD then just be prepared for the chance that stimulants will adversely affect that. Long term cannabis use also can cause anxiety. Good luck finding what works.

If a tool could be used to detect and remove CSAM and ban users then it should. No one should need to see that kind of stuff. It leaves a mark.

I’d try act more surprised but I’ve noticed you’ve been running this bar for a while

This community is the best thing about lemmy for me.