That is an incredibly frustrating email to have received. One thing really stands out to me though:
You have lived in a very privileged, unusual time
That privilege may be over.
It’s not a fucking privilege! It’s a basic human right!
On a more fundamental level though, she’s clearly scared, and I don’t blame her. But ye, her conclusions about what to do about that are bass ackwards.
The first time was like shitting the bed. It was an unpleasant mess for everyone involved, but potentially forgivable, assuming the mess was cleaned up.
The second time is smearing shit on the walls.