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Jhex@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the point in getting married?3·15 hours agoGetting legally married is intended to protect the couple under certain circumstances as you suggest. You could attempt to perform the same with other legal means but it would be harder and costlier; like you deciding not buying a car but putting one together yourself.
The notion people get legally married out of love or worse that “a paper does not say I can love a person” seem to just have a 7 year old notion of what marriage is
Jhex@lemmy.worldto No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•What's the point in getting married?3·15 hours agoThis is a shallow and very “I just think about the next few hours” view…
First of all, there are a lot more legal protections to married couples even if no kids are involved. Second, I guess you know when you are going to die so you can be certain there won’t be any end of life concerns, you are certainly immune to accidents, right? But also, you don’t have to be about to die to want your fiance to be allowed in the hospital room with you (which they won’t be if you are unable to provide approval and they are not legally your partner)
The “state” does not meddle in married life either… this is a rednecky thing to say… unless of course you are referring to treating your partner like crap or attempting to deny them any protection they are legally entitled to
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Canada@lemmy.ca•Poilievre's plans for 'woke' research spook Canadian academics13·1 day ago… while, on the same speech, utterly failing to explain what “woke” is
Jhex@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Trump ‘eroding’ US brand, has made the country 20% poorer, Citadel chief says2·2 days agoDonald Trump is moving too fast
Yeah, that’s the problem… too much speed! LOL what a jackass thing to say
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Sony Music Among Parties Pushing To Cut Off Internet for Pirating Customers — Supreme Court Asked To InterveneEnglish17·2 days agoWe were trying to be reasonable and compromise… I know, how naive of us
Now that the streaming industry plunged head first into enshitification, we are back to our previously held practices
Jhex@lemmy.worldtoUnited States | News & Politics@midwest.social•Donald Trump’s approval rating drops lower than the ‘worst president in history,’ new poll shows42·2 days agolower than his first term? wow he outdid himself
I guess there is more than one way after all
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Canada@lemmy.ca•Where the parties stand on gun control in the Canadian federal election1·2 days agoOk I guess it’s time to be pedantic.
Please show me the part of the legislation that says the weapons are banned due to the fear their appearance may induce.
Or, are you willing to admit this is just your interpretation of a likely imperfect list the government came up with?
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Canada@lemmy.ca•Where the parties stand on gun control in the Canadian federal election1·2 days agoWell not, I assumed you were not literally meaning they are banned because they “look scary”… I assumed a more rational interpretation like they “do not meet safety standards and/or do not meet environmental standards”
I will not find examples to fit your strawman
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Canada@lemmy.ca•Where the parties stand on gun control in the Canadian federal election1·3 days agoare you crazy? there are TONS of models that are changed or cannot be sold in Canada due to a bunch of safety and environmental regulations
Jhex@lemmy.worldto Canada@lemmy.ca•Where the parties stand on gun control in the Canadian federal election3·3 days agomaybe we can apply tariffs until they fix that?|
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Jhex@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•‘See how this works?’: Trump drops cases against corporations that funded his inauguration1721·3 days agoThey are trying to buy goodwill.
English is a funny language, I thought this was called a bribe but it’s just good will after all
Jhex@lemmy.worldto A Boring Dystopia@lemmy.world•Bill Gates Bought His Daughter A $16 Million Horse Farm As A Graduation Gift — But Ex-Wife Melinda Says The Kids Were Raised Very 'Middle Class'301·3 days agoYou don’t have to choose a favourite when none should exist
Jhex@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Trump Says US Cannot Give Every Person It Wants to Deport a Trial3·3 days agoThe brave are exercising their freedom to be fucked
Jhex@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•RFK Jr. ramps up his ignorant—and dangerous—war on autism4·3 days agoshe has extensive experience sampling DNA
Jhex@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Larry David's response to Bill Maher's meeting with Trump1·3 days agoI kept hearing how smart he was so I started checking his work but found nothing smart about it, he was just an arrogant ass who clearly thinks his farts smell like cinnabons
Jhex@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•RFK Jr.'s autism study to amass medical records of many Americans131·3 days agoJust the fact these mediocre people want to handle so much delicate data should be enough to call for a General Strike…
Americans are now the personification of the myth of the idiot who thought cruise control was self-driving; set it up in his RV and went to the back to take a nap
Likely, sorry about that
This is a completely different point than your original one though. And, while somewhat true, the countries that have strong marriage protections will not save you from a separation even if there is no marriage (more on this below)
Or impaired in multiple other ways… but yes, the not conscious part if key because you could be in a medically induced comma to spare you the pain and someone may need to advocate for you in case a decision needs to be made. If you just had minor issues, there would be no problem but we are fending off the worst scenarios, no need for legal protection for minor stuff
Correct and those same laws are the ones that basically have you automatically declared “common law” (or whatever preferred term) which makes a separation almost as hard as a divorce (coming back to point 2 above)
At the end of the day, yes of course it is for the couple to decide… I just want to make it clear that you do not normally get the same level of protection by just having a will or a power of attorney (or it would be actually worse in those cases) and that people should consider this WAY more than “I don’t need a paper to say I love someone”, that is not what legal marriage is about