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  • Woah, you are 100% not in the wrong; he is.

    HE groomed you, he was aware he’s literally criminally older than you in this scenario and He had the legal responsibility to recognize that and break off the connection AS SOON as he knew you were a minor. Then there’s the blatantly lying by presenting himself as a minor/teenager.

    He’s lucky to not be in prison right now. That’s exactly where this would and should have led if it had continued.

    and also said that I groomed him and tricked him into going out with me.

    This statement is an attempt to scare you away from reporting this to authorities, so he doesn’t face consequences for his blatantly illegal actions.

    Please don’t feel bad; you did nothing wrong. I wish you the best of luck in the future. :)





  • Darkassassin07@lemmy.cato196@lemmy.worldNo Kings Rule
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    2 days ago

    Shoot first, because they’re just going to lie about it anyway?

    No. Nobody said show up and open fire on every cop you see. Being the instigator will not help anyone.

    Show up, present arms to demonstrate that you can and will defend yourself and your fellow protestors should the cops chose to escalate as they have repeatedly done in the past, and proceed to march peacefully until/unless you are attacked. Then, defend yourself as necessary, taking care to not cross the line from defence to aggressor.

    Note, I’d recommend some form of body camera as you will almost certainly have to defend your use of force in court later.







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