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A Literal Cabbage. What do you want from me?

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Cake day: November 6th, 2024

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  • Autopsy reports are vague and contradictory. They describe women with evidence of trauma, including burns and electric shocks, all labeled natural deaths.

    The thinking is, presumably, that it’s natural for slaves to die.

    Anyone I’ve ever met who has worked in Saudi Arabia and the UAE has acknowledged that there’s an unbelievable amount of racism. Everybody knows about it, but you can’t criticise them, because otherwise the oil money and tax breaks stop. It’s sickening.




  • Why did you downsize the bed - is it just a matter of space for you at that point?

    I used to be pretty big on minimalism as a younger man, around the time the Minimalists were blogging (and before they became a business in their own right). I was single, rented, and it made my life much easier. But I found after a while that the “purging” was sort of a way to avoid living with myself (or to obsess over the wrong stuff).

    I still like it but the collection of stuff and things around me are a way to connect with who I was, and the life I’ve lived, and am living. And it’s a nice way to share a space with my partner. Even if her coffee table is too big.


  • Some great points about ebikes in there, as well as some awful takes on the gig economy.

    I think good ebikes are great and I used to make a living selling them. The best use cases are where delivery companies own and operate them and handle last-mile stuff using cargo ebikes. The purchase scheme type stuff is pretty good too if they’re serious about the bikes they offer and can assist with maintenance because that adds up quite quickly.

    Good ebikes are utterly brilliant and if I lived in a city I’d be all over a long tail cargo bike as my daily driver. They’re amazing machines really.

    The cynic in me always comes out though; the issue I have (which hampers their uptake more generally I think) is that for most gig economy riders the good ebikes are prohibitively expensive so most of them are on some shonky cobbled together DIY pedelecs (as opposed to EPAC’s) which are made of very cheap bikes fitted with dodgy motors and batteries which are dangerous and illegal mostly as they’re generally not speed restricted and on a throttle. It paints a bad picture of ebikes for the general public (being ridden dangerously, too fast, fire hazards, and means that lots of their obvious advantages get eclipsed by the public outrage invited by the use of these dubious BSOs.

    Side note:

    “The gig economy is really important for immigrants, it helps them integrate,” Rosales says. “It is a quick option to make money.”

    Made me sick in my mouth. Proper jobs and support help immigrants integrate. The gig economy traps people in a low wage work-til-you-burn-out cycle. The only people it benefits are the companies engaged in a race to the bottom, ripping off their drivers and the people who use the service (businesses and customers).

    /Rant.


  • I go from “God is a kid with a magnifying glass” to “everything is as it is, and when I die that’s it, nothing happens afterwards”, with varying shades of agnosticism in between.

    I still find churches (well, big ones made by people hundreds of years ago, not meeting halls) super chill. I visited a catholic shrine on my holidays last year and I found it really peaceful. I enjoy the “practice” of that aspect of religion in that respect. But I can’t square my experience of the world with anything other than an awful god who wouldn’t warrant any attention anyway.







  • I’ll start with the easiest one! They’re members of an independent church which is a member of the Evangelical Alliance in the UK. My dad’s background is Anglican, and my mum’s is Baptist. They’re both pretty okay with individual differences (as long as it’s a protestant one!), so they’re open to minor differences in belief - you can basically write these down to different interpretations of the scriptures. They are okay with discussing these differences.They were okay when I was a member of a Quaker congregation, but they don’t really get Catholicism - they see some stuff as idolatrous but they’re not anti catholic.

    Their reconciliation of the ‘holes’; this one is trickier. The fact that it’s difficult to pin down a historical Jesus (when we know about other people factually from the same era) is just sort of glossed over. Regarding the possibility of metaphysical stuff they’re actually pretty chill with admitting that there’s things we don’t know, in part because of things like dark matter, or the development of a knowledge of atomic particles etc - for them I think it’s more a case of “we can’t prove it yet” rather than “it can’t be proved”. They love science because for them it’s a proof of the elegance of creation; they believe that evolution, for example, is perfectly in line with a creator God - for them God is the spark at the beginnig of everything. A good summary of their attitude to the holes is:

    Science is full of stuff that seems counterintuitive to “rational thought” (ie. Virtual particles etc) so why is that any weirder than an irrational belief in a God whose existence you can’t prove?

    Lastly, I’ve never outright told them I don’t believe. Partially because where I stand fluctuates daily, but mostly because my life is enough of a tell - I have lived out of wedlock with my partner for the best part of 10 years, I drink to excess, don’t attend church, etc., and I have spoken to my sister (who I know will talk to my parents) about not being a Christian in any practical sense. They know I’m a good person and for them I guess it’s not problematic (and they’re not “fire and brimstone” types so I don’t know if they’re worried for my eternal soul or not but they’re content seeing me happy and being true to my conscience I guess!