For me it was was anal play. I have always had an anal fetish that I was a bit ashamed of. At some point I brought it up to my wife and to my suprise she was open to it.
Mostly in her. Not because I don’t enjoy it, but I’m very much the dominant and ‘active’ part in bed. I enjoy playing with her and teasing her. She enjoys just leaning back and letting me play.
For me it was was anal play. I have always had an anal fetish that I was a bit ashamed of. At some point I brought it up to my wife and to my suprise she was open to it.
In her, or you, or both?
Yes
Mostly in her. Not because I don’t enjoy it, but I’m very much the dominant and ‘active’ part in bed. I enjoy playing with her and teasing her. She enjoys just leaning back and letting me play.