Men and women are not the same. Rape is experienced differently for men and women. I’m not saying it’s worse for one than the other, but it literally involves that person’s genitals and is an intensely personal and gender specific thing.

The fact that you would lump male and female rape survivors together says a lot about how little experience you actually have with the subject.

There’s nothing wrong with having male-only rape survivor groups, especially if someone going through that trauma feels threatened by the other gender.