• Anamana@feddit.de
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    1 year ago

    And you should change if you wanna keep your marriage alive. I always wonder why society considers change to be something bad.

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      1 year ago

      It’s dead, Jim.

      We diverged in different directions and split up in friendship. There’s no shame in ending something before both hate eachother.

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        1 year ago

        Nono sure. I wasn’t referring to a specific example. I just see relationship as sth that needs growth and change and not as a never-changing system that has to be kept the same at all costs.

        And yeah change can also lead to speration, which also doesn’t have to be bad. Like in your example.

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        1 year ago

        Totally! Was just trying to say that change is necessary either way. We can not expect life to be the same forever.