I’m tired of being tied to specific calendars and to-do apps because of difficulties in sharing and syncing my data, so I’d like to be able to manage it myself, either self hosting or using someone else’s servers.
I already pay for web-hosting for a personal website (wordpress) but beyond this I’m totally at a loss.
My main goal is incredibly simple - I just want to host some notes and calendars for my family (tomavoid headaches when phones invariably break and so on), which I feel can’t be too hard but I’m also incredibly stupid.
Please help?!
This will not be a popular thing to say in Lemmy, but I don’t think self hosting those things is going to reduce your headaches. I have worked in IT all my life, and I have lots of experience running services of all kinds, including my self-hosted home stuff. Nowadays, I am very mindful of the cost in time and hassle to DIY rather than let someone else handle it. When it comes to calendars, everything I see has an option to integrate with Google or Outlook, so I can’t imagine how sharing and syncing are going to be better if you move to some obscure open source thing. I fought that exact battle for an entire decade - you don’t want to get me started talking about CalDAV - and my life got so much easier when I gave up and moved my stuff to a standard provider.
Avid selfhoster here. Completely agree.
“We choose to self host all the things not because it is easy, but because it is hard”.
Very easy to get a self hosted calendar sharing thing to work, but to do it securely and reliably is a significant long term undertaking.
especially when others might be accessing data there.
If you’re not technically savy, there are many options for managed Nextcloud instances, similar to managed wordpress hosting.
Have a look at projects like Nextcloud (file sync, calendar, address book, smartphone sync, many other add-ons) and Yunohost (a beginner-friendly solution/distribution that does many services, including Nextcloud). Both run eiher on a cloud server / VPS. Or on a SBC (RaspPi…) or an old laptop at home (once you manage to get the port forwarding in your router right). It’s a bit of a learning curve but not rocket science. Just fiddle around and try it first, before you put important data on it. And don’t forget to do backups. I’d recommend YunoHost.
Easiest solution is here ➡️ https://runtipi.io/
