We spent a whole hour talking, went over a lot, my history, which includes no drug abuse outside of smoking nicotine, some weed, and drinking alcohol.
She ended by saying we’d need to form a longer relationship, and, that I’d need to submit to regular drug tests.
Considering my history, the only thing I can come to, is that she’s irrational about weed, or, she’s making assumptions about my addiction risk thanks to autism.
She lied to me, and told me regular drug tests were standard for Vyvanse, having looked this up, I knew that wasn’t true, I turned her down and asked to work with someone else. I don’t care to submit to this sort of control. I’m upset that someone like her was in a position of power, now I have to wait for the VA to assign me another doc… Great, cool, I guess my life will remain on hold because someone with conservative views about drugs and autism is in a position they shouldn’t be.
Don’t tell me I should just do it, I have standards, and I looked this up.
Was it possible that she meant that regular drug testing with Vyvanse is a standard for her hospital/clinic/whatever? There doesn’t seem to be any national standard for this, but googling brings up a bunch of other folks who have been required to have regular drug testing with this prescription at the VA specifically. So she might have been telling you the truth that she’s expected to require this. It might also mean that your next doc would make the same demand.
That doesn’t make it any less invasive, obviously, and I’m not saying that there’s anything wrong with your reaction to the demand. But it might be worth talking with the doctor about your reaction to this situation before you decide to entirely cut off communications with them (whether that’s with this doctor or the next–it seems like this may not have been the first straw with this particular doc), because it’s possible that neither of you has much alternative, and if the doctor is sympathetic there may be ways they can make the imposition less onerous.
It all kinda sucks, but, y’know, that’s true of most US healthcare and often particularly for the VA.