It’s perfectly fine to be a “feminine” man. Young men do not need a vision of “positive masculinity.” They need what everyone else needs: to be a good person who has a satisfying, meaningful life.

  • LallyLuckFarm@beehaw.org
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    1 year ago

    Totally agreed here. Paraphrasing a conversation my wife watched a video of a while back:

    Traditionalist: “men should be supporting their family. If you’re a stay at home dad, you’re not a real man”

    Guy being attacked: “I support my wife’s professional aspirations, I support my kids’ educations by being there to get them ready for school, by helping with homework, and by providing them with healthy home cooked food to support their physical and mental needs. I support them when they’re sad, I support them when they’re angry. I support their confidence by telling them how amazing they are. All you’re doing is bringing home money, and that’s a weak show of support”