But at the end of my lifetime, it’s someone I loved, but that God doesn’t love (not enough to bring them to heaven, anyway…), and so my feelings about them get updated with God’s perspective?

So I learn why I was wrong to love them?

Edit: I’m just saying that Hell as a concept, alongside an all-loving God, doesn’t compute, to me.

Whereas Hell as a concept, introduced by human church leaders, to keep tithes up, makes perfect sense, to me.

So it feels like an Occam’s Razor situation, to me.