Lost my wife (34) to cancer last month and I haven’t found any good resources to help me. How do you cope with their loss? Please remove if this isn’t allowed.

  • Hot Saucerman@lemmy.ml
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    1 year ago

    You need support, whether that’s through a counselor, a support group, or other friends. I’m hesitant to say more than that, because this is one of the hardest things someone can go through. I wish you the best.

  • Mongostein@lemmy.ca
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    1 year ago

    Cry. Let it happen man. I’m tearing up thinking about what that would be like. Fuck being manly. Cry.

    The only way to get over these feelings is to let them run their course. You’ll never get over it, but you’ll learn to live with it.