

You are “being yourself” as long as what you do is what you want to do.
If you want to start flirting because you think you’d feel better, then it’s you being yourself.
If you do it because you think peers/society/whoever wants you to be like that, you’re not being yourself.
I mean, why not? I know a few lawyers and they’re as stupid as everyone, I haven’t noticed any significant difference to any other group of people.