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  • Kichae@lemmy.catoCanada@lemmy.caFuck aboot
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    3 hours ago

    Canadian Raising – which is what creates the sense in 'Muricans that we’re saying aboot – is actually weakest in the Atlantic region, and particularly with respect to Os. We strongly raise our Is and As, but not our Os. “Out and about” is more likely to be pronounced “oat in a boat” out here.

    The phenomenon, more generally, occurs coast-to-coast, though, and originated in the 1800s.

    Nowhere in Canada has anyone ever actually said “oot and aboot”, though. Americans just have this tendency to hyper-fixate on the subtle difference between raised and unraised vowels, and see the raised vowels as very cutting. They’ll go “ow-t and ab-ow-t”, or put shingles on their “ruff”, particularly in the south, and find the more closed-mouthed form of these vowels alien.


  • Kichae@lemmy.catoAutism@lemmy.worldThoughts?
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    5 hours ago

    Fuck 'em. Communication is a two-way street, and if they’re only ever willing to communicate on their own terms, then they’re not sctually interested in communicating.

    I know that often, the people being discussed in these sorts of conversations are people we feel we cannot avoid, e.g, parents, bosses, partners, etc., but these people can be excised from our lives. We can move away from home when old enough, we can find new jobs, and we can find new partners. It’s work, and it’s not easy, but there are good people out there who will genuinely want to try, and you can find them.

    You gotta dedide that part of your struggles today, though, are that others actually are demanding more of you than you are of them, and that they’re deciding they don’t care enough to do their part in bridging the gap.

    That hurts in its own right, but it’s a different kind of hurt. It’s a fuck them kind of hurt.




  • Kichae@lemmy.catoAutism@lemmy.world2meirl4meirl
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    4 days ago

    This just boils down to “don’t disucuss social power dynamics” at some point, though, and that’s how social power dynamics remain unchallenged, and only ever evolve towards reinforcing the social hegemony.

    People need to be able to criticise others’ words and actions when they perpetuate injustice, regardless of whether they are a part of the affected minority, and this criticism should not be viewed through the lens of taking offence.

    One can criticise without being personally offended.















  • Are we really getting to the point of attacking OAS now? Seriously? Like, I know everyone loves to hate on the boomers, but most of them didn’t strike it rich, many live in homes that are old and not well maintained, have failing bodies, are being squeezed out of labour jobs, etc. Having a tiny, taxable income stream at a time where society is turning against you isn’t some crazy benefit.

    Attack the rich, not the old.